Most conversations about anal sex positions start and end with mechanics. That’s not what this guide is about. The best anal sex position isn’t the most acrobatic one. It’s the one where both partners feel comfortable, in control, … [Read more...] about The Best Positions for Anal Sex That Help Deepen Intimacy
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Anal Foreplay For Couples: Your Guide To Deeper Intimacy And Lasting Connection
Long-term relationships evolve. Bodies change. Desires shift. What once felt new becomes familiar—and that’s not a bad thing. Familiarity is where trust lives. And when trust is strong, exploration gets deeper. … [Read more...] about Anal Foreplay For Couples: Your Guide To Deeper Intimacy And Lasting Connection
Anal Sex After Care: How To Heal, Reduce Anal Soreness, And Protect Your Health
Anal sex after care is what you do once the fun is over. It’s the hour after. The next morning. Sometimes the next few days. It’s how you treat your body once penetration stops. The anus and rectum aren’t built like the … [Read more...] about Anal Sex After Care: How To Heal, Reduce Anal Soreness, And Protect Your Health
Anal Sex For Older Couples, Part 2: Preparation, The Essentials, And Aftercare
In our previous article in this series, we introduced the topic of anal sex for older couples, talked about why some couples are exploring it as they age, and established that a healthy foundation for introducing anal sex to your … [Read more...] about Anal Sex For Older Couples, Part 2: Preparation, The Essentials, And Aftercare
Anal Sex For Older Couples, Part 1: Rediscovering Intimacy, Pleasure & Connection At Any Age
Sex doesn’t disappear with age. It evolves. For many gay men, anal sex has long been part of their sexual vocabulary. But as the body shifts over time, the way you engage with it may shift too. Erections may not be as … [Read more...] about Anal Sex For Older Couples, Part 1: Rediscovering Intimacy, Pleasure & Connection At Any Age
Anal Training: A Beginner’s Guide To Anal Sex
When people think of bottoming for the first time, two words often come to mind: mess and pain. However, when you prepare for anal properly through anal training, all you’ll think of is confidence and pleasure. So how do you get … [Read more...] about Anal Training: A Beginner’s Guide To Anal Sex
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Room For Compromise In The Bedroom
Waiting For Marriage Q: My girlfriend just told me that she wants to wait until marriage to have sex. There’s just one issue: we’ve been together for five years and we used to regularly have sex. At some point, things in the … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Room For Compromise In The Bedroom
Does Anal Hurt? Tips to Avoid Pain
There is a common misconception that anal sex hurts. We can assure you: this isn’t true. If it does, it’s likely you’re doing something wrong (or you didn’t do enough to prepare). While some people use the words “discomfort” and … [Read more...] about Does Anal Hurt? Tips to Avoid Pain
Anal Sex For Mature Men: A Comprehensive Guide To Health, Pleasure & Safety
We’ll be the first to tell you: anal sex gets better with age. With experience comes a clearer sense of your body, your desires, and what brings you pleasure. Whether you’re returning to anal sex after years away, exploring it for … [Read more...] about Anal Sex For Mature Men: A Comprehensive Guide To Health, Pleasure & Safety
A Guide To Anal Play For Women
I love anal play because it’s a universal act that transcends all genders and sexual identities. Why? Well, because everyone has an asshole! Some people believe only those with prostates can receive pleasure from anal stimulation, … [Read more...] about A Guide To Anal Play For Women
Good Sex Goes Beyond Penetration
Sex is so much more than just a penis in a vagina! What happens if your penis isn't strong enough to penetrate? What if your dry vagina is causing tiny tears that hurt during sexual activity? What if you are suffering with a … [Read more...] about Good Sex Goes Beyond Penetration
New To Anal? Try These Tips From An Adult Performer
As a current anal slut, I find it so funny how I used to be scared of doing anal sex. I was afraid it would hurt and was terrified of you know… making a mess (we’ve all heard the horror stories). Since doing anal for an audience … [Read more...] about New To Anal? Try These Tips From An Adult Performer